Every card has multiple interpretations based on your question, the other cards, and sometimes, you just pick up on something unexpected.
For example, when a card represents a specific person rather than just an energy. Judgement as ‘him’ makes sense to me. It could definitely be someone who carries that awakening energy.
You mentioned the resurrection aspect - someone returning transformed - and that’s classic Judgement when it represents a person. And if he’s constantly encouraging her to reach her potential (assuming you meant her life calling?), then he’s mainly filling that role in her life.
The cards can be surprisingly direct sometimes. Instead of showing transformation as a concept, Judgement might literally mean ‘this person triggers your transformation.’ Showing up three times is pretty hard to miss.