Yeah, that independence angle clicks. With Queen of Wands as intentions, I’ve seen it show up when someone wants you to be the one who reaches out first.
Especially if they’re not as confident or experienced, they’ve probably thought about reconnecting but are waiting for you to lead. The card’s fiery energy suggests they’re drawn to people who know what they want and aren’t afraid to pursue it. It could be they’re hoping you’ll bring that same directness to the situation with them.