That butterfly feeling when you can’t quite read someone’s signals? We’ve all been there. This 7-card ‘Does He Like Me’ Tarot spread has helped countless clients (and yes, myself too!) decode those mixed messages and understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. While nothing replaces honest conversation, these cards can illuminate the unspoken dynamics and help you navigate those early relationship waters with more clarity and confidence.
A good place to start before jumping straight to a marriage reading.
The Spread
- Heart’s Whisper - Your true feelings and attraction towards this person
- Mirror of Desire - How he perceives you and his current emotions
- Unspoken Words - The communication dynamics between you two
- Cupid’s Arrow - Potential for romantic connection or development
- Shadow of Doubt - Obstacles or fears hindering the connection
- Destiny’s Thread - The most likely outcome of this potential relationship
- Key to Connection - Action or approach to enhance your bond
Significant Cards
Every card that comes up in your spread is trying to help give you insight, but some are the linchpins of the message.
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The Lovers card is a powerful indicator of mutual attraction and potential romance, suggesting a deep connection or important choice ahead.
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The Two of Cups, a Minor Arcana card, often signifies the beginning of a romantic relationship or a strengthening bond between two people, pointing to shared feelings and emotional harmony.
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The Knight of Wands, which typically represents passionate pursuit and can indicate that the person in question is eager to make a move or express their interest.
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The Empress, when she appears, often signals nurturing feelings, attraction, and the potential for a loving, fertile relationship to blossom.
Timing & Preparation
The best time to do a “does he like me” Tarot spread is during the waxing moon phase, particularly on a Friday (associated with Venus and love), when you’re feeling calm and centered. Before beginning, take a few deep breaths and light a pink or white candle to set a peaceful, love-focused mood. It’s also helpful to write down your specific question about the person you’re interested in, to keep your intention clear as you lay out the cards.
Recommended Decks
The Rider-Waite-Smith deck is an excellent choice due to its clear imagery and well-established interpretations, making it easier to read emotions and relationships. The Tarot of Sexual Magic is another great option, as it focuses on romantic and passionate themes, providing layered insights into attraction and desire. For a less conventional choice, consider the Osho Zen Tarot, which offers a fresh perspective on interpersonal connections and self-awareness, helping you understand both your feelings and the other person’s energy. Of course, any deck you feel comfortable with can be used for this type of reading, as the most important factor is your connection to the cards and your intuition.
Reading Tips
When reading a “does he like me” Tarot spread, pay close attention to how the cards interact and tell a story together, rather than focusing too much on individual meanings. Look for patterns like multiple cups cards indicating emotional connection, or pentacles suggesting a desire for stability and commitment. After your reading, take time to journal about your impressions and any intuitive hits you received, as these insights often become clearer with reflection. When it comes to reversals in this type of spread, view them as energy that’s blocked or delayed rather than completely negative—for example, a reversed Lovers card might suggest hesitation about commitment rather than a lack of interest altogether.
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