You know that feeling when you’re standing at a crossroads and both paths look equally terrifying? Or equally amazing? That’s when I pull out this spread. It’s saved me from so many sleepless nights of overthinking.
This isn’t just about seeing which option is “better”. It’s about understanding the whole landscape of your decision. The hidden stuff. The things your subconscious already knows but hasn’t told you yet. I’ve used this for everything from “should I take that job?” to “is it time to move cities?” and it’s never let me down.
The Spread
- The Crossroads - Where you are right now, standing between worlds
- The Veil - What’s hidden from view (this one’s always interesting)
- The Mirror - Your true motivations… the ones you might not want to admit
- The Scales - The actual pros and cons laid bare
- The Lighthouse - Divine guidance shining through the fog
- The Stepping Stone - Your very next move (not the whole path, just the next step)
- The Horizon - Where this all leads in the long run
Cards That Make Me Pay Extra Attention
When these show up, I know the universe is trying to tell me something specific. I do pay attention to every card in the spread, but these are the key informers.
The Hanged Man - Oh honey, when this appears? It’s basically the universe saying “slow down, flip your perspective upside down.” Sometimes the answer comes when we stop pushing so hard.
Two of Swords - The ultimate “stuck between a rock and a hard place” card. But here’s the secret - it’s telling you to drop into your heart space. Your intuition knows, even when your mind is doing mental gymnastics.
Knight of Wands - This fiery fellow shows up when one path is calling to your passion. Just… maybe don’t pack your bags and leave tonight? He’s all enthusiasm, not so much on the planning.
The Tower - Don’t panic if this shows up! In decision spreads, it often means one choice will completely reshape your life. Sometimes we need that earthquake.
When to Use This Spread
I find this spread works best during a waxing moon. You’re building toward something, making choices that will grow. Sunday is also powerful (hello, solar energy and clarity!). But honestly? Use it whenever you’re feeling that knot in your stomach about a big choice. The cards don’t care what day it is if you need them.
Before you shuffle, take a minute. Really.
- Breathe deep (like, into your belly deep)
- Picture yourself standing at that crossroads
- Feel both paths stretching out before you
- Light a candle if it helps you focus
- Ask for clarity, not just the answer you want to hear
Look, you can use ANY deck that speaks to you, but here are my favorites for decision work:
Rider-Waite-Smith - Classic for a reason. The imagery is so clear when you need straightforward guidance.
Wild Unknown - Those stark black and white images? They cut through confusion like a knife. Perfect when you need clarity without fluff.
Osho Zen - This one’s different. It doesn’t care about your pros and cons list - it goes straight for your soul’s wisdom. Use this when you suspect the “logical” choice isn’t the right one.
Here’s the thing - don’t just read each card like a grocery list. I mean, try to avoid reading any spread like that. Look at how the cards talk to each other. Are all your Swords in the “cons” positions? Maybe you’re overthinking. Lots of Cups around The Mirror? This decision is more about emotions than you realized. In decision spreads, I read reversals as the stuff you’re not seeing clearly or the energy that’s blocked. They’re not “bad” - they’re just… complicated.
Please share your experience with this reading or your variations